My Unfair Button
Over the last almost 6 months we have been meeting with our pastor for premarital counseling. His program is 6 months long and we started it only 8 weeks before our wedding so it’s carried into the first several months of our marriage and it has been magical. It’s like having our own referee. If you haven’t done pre-marital or marriage counseling let me make this oh so clear: you are missing out. You guys... I will say this until I’m blue in the face: you do not know how selfish you are until you get married. For real. Dan has helped us figure out all kinds of little tricks to be better at this Holy matrimony business. But in the process he’s also helped me figure out my triggers that can make me... Let’s just say, not so pleasant. Allow me to introduce: my “unfair” button. I have this thing going on in my head that makes me think I have the ability to determine what is fair and what is not. I’d like to tell you I use this made-up super power for good, but, i...

